Synonyms for confrontation
Prov. 10:17 reproof
Prov. 17:10 rebuke
Prov. 27:2 wounds
Prov. 29:17 correct
Heb. 12:10-11discipline
Definition-a truthful face-to-face encounter with someone we love regarding a matter that needs attention or correction.
About confrontation
It should always build up rather than tear down.
When possible, it should be done in private.
How to confront
1. State the issue tactfully and directly.
2. Provide example without exaggerating.
3. Suggest a plan of action.
4. Reassure your friend of your concern, compassion and care throughout the entire process.
When to Confront (Matt. 16:21-23)
1. When people become a stumbling block to you or others.
2. When people have set their minds on man’s interest not God’s.
Why confront (Luke 22:31-34)
1. To strengthen areas of vulnerability
2. To warn against overconfidence and blind spots
How did Jesus confront? (Luke22: 47-62)
1. an abrupt passionate command v.51
2. A thought provoking question v.52
3. An analytical statement v.53
4. a mere look v. 61
The next time you need to confront:
Be sure you have a good reason
Be Specific
Be Sensitive